Wife doesent want sex why. I thank her for helping me make a decision to move on with my life and let her find someone else to pay for her nails and hair,,,KMYUFC…. For other wives, you might be focusing on a career or perhaps raising teenagers, handling a blended family, aging parents, etc. We had so much sex that I went to preterm labor. Principles and Practice of Sex Therapy. Ask her specifically what you can do. New York: Her low desire might have very little to do with you. Put your arm around her. These issues are also addressed within other topics on this web site. Live a poured out life for Christ, Jolene Engle.