Valentines gift for a girl you just started hookup. Valentine's Day gifts for complicated relationships. It's made of thick canvas material not flimsy at all. It also includes her. Because my answer is going to depend on that. Make them sexual! Don't mistake that closeness for attraction. December 9, Honestly, you just met. Wrong, says Thomas. If you've just started dating a girl, you probably don't know which category she's in. After all, the person is not expecting to be blown away…not just yet. While there are many advantages to keeping things casual, one downside is the confusion that comes along with it.