Losing hope dating. Who knows!? I don't hang on so tightly to the stuff that can cause me to lose faith. We need communitynot because people complete us, but because God gave us people to edify us, help us, encourage us, and sharpen us. We have to be willing to trust in God, work on ourselves, and keep our heart open—even if it's just a sliver—so that hope can find us again. Thank you. Basically, this safe zone was keeping me emotionally unattached due to losing all hope of finding genuine love again. Negative emotions takes so much energy and I was tired of giving any more energy to my Ex. A broken, devastated heart needs time to heal.