Dating a feminist woman image. Beware men who believe that they deserve leadership roles in feminist movements. Often pigeonholed as more of a headache than a lover, here are some of the main concerns the non-feminist populous has when it comes to these strong-minded femme fatales. Think dating a feminist is like saying goodbye to your balls? Seriously, would you want to date someone who believed anything less? Reproductive rights? Not a feminist, but the kind of guy who reads like a decent person up front. Also known as a Business Feminist. As good as actual feminist in my view. Any lingering anti-feminist beliefs you may still have can and will be challenged. There is no such thing as a perfect feminist.